Today was supposed to be the day that things got back to "normal." Or rather, merged into some sort of "new normal" for us since adding a newborn to the mix. But alas, it's Monday. Mondays are not known for being anyone's favorite day of the week. Maybe Monday feels a bit slighted because if ever there's a day for something to go wrong, it's a Monday. And today was definitely a Monday. (Is anyone else humming the "Monday, Monday" song by the Mamas and the Papas? Yeah, me neither).
Mr. Incredible was *supposed* to head back to work today after being off for the last two weeks. I was *supposed* to get back to schooling Stitch and Boo. We were *supposed* to get back to "life as we know it." Monday thought differently.
In the middle of the night last night I was awakened by a barking sound. No, our dogs were both in the living room, locked in their kennels and sleeping soundly. This barking was coming from our oldest child. Poor kid sounded horrible. I thought something was a bit "off" with her yesterday. In fact, we took her with us in church instead of sending her to her own class. She wasn't complaining, nothing hurt, and she didn't have a fever....but I just sensed that something was off. Her eyes were a bit glassy and she wasn't her usual, perky self. Yesterday afternoon I took her temperature and it registered as 100.4. That's an iffy fever around these parts. It may be a fever....it may not be a fever. Before bed, I took it again and it was 100.3. Unsure of whether it would progress or not, I went ahead and put her to bed without medication. I don't like to medicate for fevers unless (A) the child is acting visibly uncomfortable, or (B) the fever is 101 or above and we're heading to bed for the night. I don't want the fever to get out of control while we sleep, unaware.
At nearly 2 AM, Stitch sat up, with a barking cough and a look of panic on her face. When I heard her noisily intake a breath, I'm sure I looked panicked as well. Hearing your child having breathing difficulties is just not something that a parent wants to hear. After a quick temperature check (101.5), I got her up and out of bed. Suspecting croup (as Boo had it several times as an infant), I bundled her up and took her outside. Cool, moist air helps bring down any swelling in the airways. Unfortunately, it was not nearly as chilly outside as I expected it to be. The air was definitely not cool enough to benefit her airways. So back inside we went where I stripped her down and put her into a steaming shower. Poor kid was having chills by this point. Plus, she was still panicking about her breathing, which was making it worse. She was on the verge of tears. I calmed her, explaining that if she cried, she was going to make it ten times worse.
The steaming shower was quick, as she was running a fever and I didn't want to send it up any higher by bringing her body temperature up with the hot water. I just wanted to kind of "jump start" the process of lessening the swelling in her airways by having her breathe in the steam. Our bathroom is somewhat large and it would have taken forever to steam up the entire bathroom enough to help her. So I just put her in with the steam.
After only a few minutes, I got her out, her little body shaking and shivering. I dressed her as quickly as possible and then blow dried her hair. I wanted to lie her down right away in order to calm her down and relax her breathing. She asked to watch a show. At that point, I would have bought her a pony if she'd asked. And so at 2:30 AM, Stitch was watching My Little Pony on a cot on the floor of the guest bedroom, bundled up in her sleeping bag, her fever slowly going down thanks to a dose of Tylenol. Baby and I tried to get a little sleep on the guest bed in the room with Stitch. Well, *I* tried to get some sleep....baby slept through it all.
At some point, I got up to go to the bathroom and heard little feet running down the hall towards me. Boo came running from the bedroom with a smile on her face, wanting me to pick her up. She thought it was morning and time to get up and play. I quickly took her back to our bedroom and put her in bed with Daddy. Thankfully, she immediately fell back asleep.
So that's how our Monday began.....very, very early in the morning. I'm running on very little sleep right now. Thanksfully, Mr. Incredible was able to stay home again today in order to take Stitch to the doctor this afternoon. I didn't want to drag two healthy kids into a waiting room chock full of sick germs....especially a 2 week old baby. And speaking of a 2 week old baby, please pray that she doesn't get whatever this is that Stitch has, whether it be croup or just a really bad cold. Newborns have such small airways anyways that I don't even want to imagine how bad it would be if she caught croup and her airways began to swell.
So now I'm signing off, heading into the guest bedroom with Stich to slather her chest and feet with Vicks, set up the cool midst humidifier, check her temperature, possibly dose her with Tylenol, and prop her up on pillows. I'm hoping for an uneventful, restful night in the guest bedroom with our oldest and youngest children. Mr. Incredible and Boo can sleep soundly in their normal places. I'm praying for a better Tuesday.